Wrecks & Ruins — Eric D. Goodman

Stuart believes romantic love is like the cycle of a cicada: a few months of excited buzz -- romance, lust, excitement -- followed by a monotonous silence that can't live up to the promise at the start.
He strings together more than broken relationships, seeking art in the defective. After finding love, sabotaging it, and rekindling the fire again, Stu comes to understand that his drive to end relationships prematurely and his attraction to damaged goods are connected to his fear of being broken himself. Part romantic comedy, part buddy novel, Wrecks and Ruins finds beauty in the most unusual places.