Hungry Touch — Shona Husk

The Complex Book Series.
A Lone Planet. One Complex.
Unlimited Chaos.
The small population of Incubi in the Complex is clinging to old traditions and shunning contact with other alien species. Each year, the Incubi fight for the privilege to lead and mate. Only one can win. Kearn Layk never planned on winning, only doing better than last year's previous dismal result that left him at the bottom of the pack. A year's worth of secretly training more than paid off. He shocks everyone and wins. In the process, he makes an enemy of the man who was leader. Now filled with the burning desire to find a mate, he goes in search of a woman.
Phoebe Evans came to the Complex to reinvent herself. Being surrounded by the alien Metas is as strange as it is fascinating, but she hasn't had the courage to date one yet. Then she meets Kearn. He's smart and interesting and most definitely not Human.
Incubi traditions and Humans desires clash, and as new ideas are tested, old enemies rise up and threaten lives. Not everyone wants to see the Complex succeed.

For readers who like virgin alien heroes.